When people hear the word “autism,” they often think of rigid routines, social differences, or meltdowns. But autism is rarely a standalone experience. Many autistic children, like ours, also navigate a world filled with extra challenges that most people haven’t even heard of. Today, we’re shining a light on ARFID, dyspraxia, and other common but misunderstood co-occurring conditions.
Let’s break the myths, replace judgement with understanding, and support our children with real solutions.
Section 1: ARFID – “Just a Fussy Eater” or Something More?
What It Is:
ARFID stands for Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder. It’s not a phase or pickiness, it’s an eating disorder rooted in sensory sensitivities, fear, or trauma. Children with ARFID may eat only a handful of foods, avoid entire textures, or become distressed by the smell or colour of food.
Myth to Bust:
“They’ll eat when they’re hungry.”
Children with ARFID can’t just push through. It’s not about willpower, it’s about nervous system overload. Forcing or bribing doesn’t help; it harms.
Support Tip:
Routine, non-pressured exposure to safe foods, sensory tools, and professional guidance (like a dietitian or OT) is key.
Section 2: Dyspraxia – More Than Clumsy
What It Is:
Dyspraxia (also known as Developmental Coordination Disorder) affects motor skills, planning, and coordination. For many autistic children, it shows up in difficulties with dressing, using cutlery, brushing teeth, or riding a bike.
Myth to Bust:
“They’re lazy or not trying hard enough.”
Dyspraxia isn’t a motivation issue, it’s a motor planning difference. Tasks that seem “easy” to others take huge effort.
Support Tip:
Use visual aids, break tasks down step-by-step, and celebrate progress, not perfection.
Section 3: Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) – The Missing Piece
What It Is:
Many autistic children have SPD, meaning they’re either over- or under-sensitive to sensory input like noise, light, texture, smell, or touch.
Myth to Bust:
“They’re being dramatic or naughty.”
Sensory overload is real and painful. Meltdowns are not tantrums, they are a body’s way of saying “this is too much.”
Support Tip:
Regulation tools like chew toys, compression clothing, U-shaped toothbrushes, and quiet spaces can help meet those sensory needs.
Section 4: Why It Matters
Understanding these co-occurring challenges isn’t about labels, it’s about unlocking real support. When we know the “why” behind behaviours, we stop blaming children and start empowering them.
At Sensory Shine, we’ve lived these struggles. That’s why every product in our store, Like our sensory-friendly toothbrushes are designed with lived experience and love.
Conclusion: Together, We Can Change the Narrative
Let’s move beyond stereotypes. Autism doesn’t come with a manual, but it does come with real needs, brilliant strengths, and a village of parents who care. You’re not alone, and your child is not broken.
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https://www.arfidawarenessuk.org/treatment
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/developmental-coordination-disorder-dyspraxia/
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